Becoming a widow radically changes so many things, including how we feel about going away. Holidays that were once shared or familiar experiences can suddenly feel complicated,  emotionally-charged and logistically impossible. Yet,as widows, travel can also offer us space to breathe and moments of joy and can serve as a gentle reminder that life, although different, is still ours to experience.

In this blog, I want to explore holidaying as a widow, in all its honesty. I’ll acknowledge the hesitation and the guilt that can sometimes creep in, and the quiet fear of doing something alone for the first time. However, I’ll also explore the many different ways a holiday can support healing - whether that’s a peaceful retreat, a guided group trip, a visit with family or friends, or a brave solo adventure.

I’ll look at some of the different types of holidays available to us - the benefits they offer and the challenges we may face. I’ll suggest some tips on how to support yourself emotionally...